Why when you really want something in your life do obstacles come up that get in the way of you achieving the results you want?

Does it feel like you’re doing everything in your power to achieve your goals but it’s just not happening? 

You’ve followed all the advice and you’re putting all the effort in. 

That’s just the thing, it just feels like such hard work.

One of the most likely scenarios is that you have mental blocks – old beliefs about why you can’t have what you want. These old “stories” can come from as far back as your childhood. Usually, we don’t even realise they are there, but they are playing on loops in the background. If obstacles are coming up around your goal, you should take a careful look at what you believe about obtaining that deep desire.

Some examples of limiting beliefs are:

  • I’m not good enough
  • I don’t deserve it
  • Making money is hard work
  • People will think I don’t know what I’m doing
  • If I have what I want, I’m a bad person

Another common way we create obstacles for ourselves is because of fear. We are afraid of what will happen if we don’t get what we want. And, believe it or not, sometimes we are even subconsciously afraid of what will happen if we do get what we want.

Many of these mental blocks will have been with you most of your life, they become part of your natural pattern of behaviour and become a protection mechanism.  You may not even consciously be aware of them unless you have done work to find out what your beliefs are.  

What’s great is that you can find out what your beliefs are and if they are not serving  you well in your life, you can let them go and replace them with more empowering beliefs.

Get in touch with me if you want to find out how coaching with me can help – louisa@incredible-you.co.uk or book a call – https://incredible-you.co.uk/free-call-booking/


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